2. Help others

Selfish people are, as a rule, negative people. They are also called ‘energy suckers’. They cannot survive without others yet they never invest themselves into anyone but themselves. That is wrong and unfulfilling. It is good that you have learned to love yourself, now it’s time to take another step and learn to love the people around you. Any kind of relationship is a two-way street and if you do not want to stay all alone, you should start doing something about it right now. Helping others is appreciated by most. You will not go unnoticed. Helping does not require any special skills or talents. It does not cost anything either. Help someone by holding the door, or give sincere advice to someone who really needs it. Being a good listener might also be called help. There are too many lonely people who want to be listened to.